So, I had this whole plan to write a post about appreciating our freedom, in honor of the upcoming July 4th holiday. I wasn’t sure when I was going to write it, since life has been particularly busy recently. And then, all of a sudden, my schedule opened up…and I also got an even more relevant topic for a blog post.
Okay, here it goes, deep breath…I’m unemployed. Yep, as of yesterday, I am a free bird. The position that I had at my company for the past year and a half has been eliminated. This came as a complete shock, and I was pretty upset as I packed up my spare shoes and desk toys on my way out. But, as the day went on, I realized that I had a choice. I could feel bad for myself, think about how life just keeps handing me lemons, and wonder why the universe seems to have it out for me; or, I could make the most of this opportunity and see it as a blessing in disguise. If you’ve read any of my other posts about the challenges I have confronted in the past couple of years, you will not be surprised to know that I chose the latter.
A couple of friends have posts up today about setting goals for the second half of 2010. What a timely topic! So, here’s my goal for the rest of this year: be happy! I know, you were probably expecting me to say “get a job,” and while that’s included in “be happy,” it’s certainly not all of it. Yes, a top priority is finding a job, something that I can bring my skills and experience to, and something that I truly enjoy doing. I’m going to believe in myself and be confident in what I can bring to the table. When I do find something, I want to wake up every day and be excited to go to work, and if not every day, than at least most days. I also want to be happy about myself. I just joined a new gym, and I’m really pumped about it. And now that I don’t have to sit at a desk all day, I can get outside and enjoy the fresh air more. I’m also planning my wedding, and I have been determined from the start for the fun to overtake the stress of the experience. So far, stress is winning out, but soon most of the big things will be out of the way and it’ll be all fun.
Look, if I’ve learned nothing else the past two years, it’s that we can’t always control what happens to us, but we can control how we react to each situation. Yes, this sucks, but I’m choosing to find the silver lining in the cloud, to realize that it could be much worse, and to look at this as a fresh start. I mean really, the possibilities are endless, isn’t that exciting?!
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wow. i am seriously in awe of your perspective. i have a bad habit of going into serious pouting/incoherent rage mode when stuff like this happens. thanks for the good example!
Chin up babe. There are new and exciting things headed your way. Time to do what you care about the most.
I'll be here, cheering you on.
xox
Sam – I can't even imagine what a shock it must've been to get that news. You never cease to amaze me with your positive outlook on life. I know things aren't always easy for you – in fact, you've had some major roller-coaster rides these last few years, but you navigate your way to the silver lining so quickly. You are resilient, strong, amazing and now a free bird! I'm really excited to see where life takes you next…
Sam, I'm sorry that you have to experience this — amid so many other challenges you've faced, especially when you weren't exactly ready for it. But I really believe life doesn't give us more than we can handle, and I am absolutely certain that you can handle this. I am so happy to see your positive attitude and optimistic reaction. You can do anything — anything — and your strength is something that is shining through. I am absolutely certain that this is a positive change — one that is gearing you up for the next (wonderful) journey in your life. You deserve only the best, and this fresh start, as you put it, is leading the way.
Hang in there! Clearly, you've got a lot of love and support on your side
Thanks so much! I've just figured out that pouting and being sad doesn't get me anywhere, so I might as well make the most of the situation. Life's too short, ya know?
Thanks love! So grateful to have you in my court
Thank you so much, Jenny! I truly appreciate your kind words. Life isn't always easy, I've definitely learned that lesson. But, everything happens for a reason, you just have to be open-minded and patient enough to figure out what that reason is. I'm excited to see where life takes me next too!
Wow, Susan! That's quite the vote of confidence! Thank you so, so much. It means a lot to have your support xoxo
Again, I'm very sorry to hear this. And like I told you earlier, if there is anything I can do to help you out in the job department (like recommend you or put you in touch with someone), just let me know.
I'm very impressed at how well you are taking this and how quickly you have started looking at the bright side of things. It could always be worse. Besides, you weren't that thrilled there anyway. So this is a blessing in disguise. Plus, you now have more free time to plan your wedding and enjoy the second half of summer. See, there's something to smile about!
I could also finish my Guest Post for you. That might cheer you up, considering it’s only been 10 years since you asked me.
I'm sorry to hear about the job, Sam. It's not easy and unfortunately, we all go through something of this sometime in our life. Doesn't make it any easier
Nonetheless, you're right, the possibilities are endless! You're smart, well connected and have a backdrop of friends, family and online friends there to support you. If I can do anything, please let me know. Sending good vibes your way and enjoy the long wknd xo
Thanks David! I really appreciate your support and your perspective! And yes, the fact that you finished your guest post helps a little too
Thanks Grace. You're right, the fact that everyone will go through this at some point, doesn't make it easier. But, it could be worse in a number of ways, and that's what I keep reminding myself. Thank you so much for your kind words and good vibes! I hope you enjoy the long weekend too
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