Sometimes you have to put the past behind you and be there. Yesterday morning, my mom called to tell me something about a close family friend; his girlfriend had gotten some news about her family, and she was now in a situation eerily similar to the one I’ve been going through for the past year and a half. Here’s the thing about this girl: I’ve known her since we were about ten years old. We went to summer camp together for many years…but we were never really friends. In fact, we were in totally different social groups, and I can probably count on one hand the number of times we’ve ever had a conversation. But, as soon as I hung up the phone with my mom, I looked up her e-mail address and sent her an e-mail. I told her that I know what she’s going through, and I know just how much it sucks. I know how overwhelmed she probably feels, and how difficult it is to feel like you’re burdening your friends with your problems when you try and share. So, I told her that if she needs to talk, not to hesitate to let me know.
The truth is, that I literally feel her pain. As I’m writing this post and thinking about what she must be going through, my heart hurts for her. We were never friends, but when it comes down to it, that doesn’t matter. I didn’t think twice about reaching out to her. You never know, the next time I need someone to be there for me, I might be pleasantly surprised to have a new friend by my side. The bottom line is that when someone’s going through something that you’ve been through, whether friend or foe, let bygones be bygones and just be there for them.
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Sam, it seems like you are the kind of person who would take the last item off your back to give it to anyone in need, I am not surprised by this post. I have many a forgotten friend, fallen comrade, or even acquaintance in my life who if I were to hear they were in need, I would not hesitate to reach out to them. I love that you are the same way. Must be a Virgo thing. A friend in need's a friend indeed and if you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to give me a shout.
Jeremy: You are quite perceptive, my friend. I'm a giver, always have been. I can tell that you're that way too. You are an incredibly caring person, and I'm so glad we connected! Earlier today, I tweeted that social media is making me believe in fate, and that I truly believe I was destined to meet certain people. You are definitely one of those people, Virgos unite
Thanks for offering an ear, please know that it goes both ways!
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