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		<title>By: sameve</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeschocolates.com/digital-world/when-does-personal-branding-go-too-far/comment-page-1/#comment-955</link>
		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:56:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nisha: I think you make a great point. Personal branding is great if you have something to say and ideas to share. I would also add... and if you are able to make those ideas the primary focus of your content, and branding yourself as secondary. Thanks for commenting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nisha: I think you make a great point. Personal branding is great if you have something to say and ideas to share. I would also add&#8230; and if you are able to make those ideas the primary focus of your content, and branding yourself as secondary. Thanks for commenting!</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 14:56:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nisha: I think you make a great point. Personal branding is great if you have something to say and ideas to share. I would also add... and if you are able to make those ideas the primary focus of your content, and branding yourself as secondary. Thanks for commenting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nisha: I think you make a great point. Personal branding is great if you have something to say and ideas to share. I would also add&#8230; and if you are able to make those ideas the primary focus of your content, and branding yourself as secondary. Thanks for commenting!</p>
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		<title>By: Nisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:08:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, always an interesting topic. I disagree with those who say &#039;personal branding&#039; doesn&#039;t exist. I&#039;ve learned a ton about how to present myself online that has helped me out in many ways. So as much as some people think &#039;personal branding&#039; is full of crap, I think there is a lot of merit to the concept.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At the same time, there are definitely people who take it too far and those people drive me bananas. Personal branding is great if you have something to say, and if you have ideas; if you&#039;re just trying to promote your SELF but you don&#039;t have original ideas to promote, it gets really old.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And to answer your final question, what do I do when I think someone has gone overboard on the personal branding thing? I have absolutely no hesitation about unfollowing them on Twitter and/or unsubscribing to their blog. They have every right to do what they want, but there&#039;s no reason I need to read their content if it&#039;s too self-promotional.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, always an interesting topic. I disagree with those who say &#39;personal branding&#39; doesn&#39;t exist. I&#39;ve learned a ton about how to present myself online that has helped me out in many ways. So as much as some people think &#39;personal branding&#39; is full of crap, I think there is a lot of merit to the concept.</p>
<p>At the same time, there are definitely people who take it too far and those people drive me bananas. Personal branding is great if you have something to say, and if you have ideas; if you&#39;re just trying to promote your SELF but you don&#39;t have original ideas to promote, it gets really old.</p>
<p>And to answer your final question, what do I do when I think someone has gone overboard on the personal branding thing? I have absolutely no hesitation about unfollowing them on Twitter and/or unsubscribing to their blog. They have every right to do what they want, but there&#39;s no reason I need to read their content if it&#39;s too self-promotional.</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 01:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Elisa: Thank you, friend! I can verify that you are also the same in person as you are online, and I&#039;m so glad to have met you! &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;ve experienced some of the same things that you have in recent weeks, and that&#039;s what inspired me to tweet those questions in the first place. You&#039;re right that you can often tell when people are being fake and uncaring, but sometimes it&#039;s the people who used to be real and genuine, and I find that even more frustrating. I totally agree, and you phrase it so well: Success that makes you change who you are to achieve it is not success at all. Thanks for making such a great contribution to the discussion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Elisa: Thank you, friend! I can verify that you are also the same in person as you are online, and I&#39;m so glad to have met you! </p>
<p>I&#39;ve experienced some of the same things that you have in recent weeks, and that&#39;s what inspired me to tweet those questions in the first place. You&#39;re right that you can often tell when people are being fake and uncaring, but sometimes it&#39;s the people who used to be real and genuine, and I find that even more frustrating. I totally agree, and you phrase it so well: Success that makes you change who you are to achieve it is not success at all. Thanks for making such a great contribution to the discussion!</p>
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		<title>By: Elisa Doucette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elisa Doucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 01:25:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam, I love this post and even more that I can verify that you in person is not at all different than you online.  I feel like there are many people who would not be able to make that same statement.  :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To answer your questions, dear god yes personal branding can go too far.  In the past month I&#039;ve encountered people who solicited my email under false pretenses on Twitter only to inundate me with sales pitches, written posts with sensational SEO laden titles which detract from the entire point of the post, RT&#039;s of the same post over 20 times, writing juvenile posts attacking other bloggers after reaching out to them under false pretenses, asking questions on Twitter for open @replies and then never engaging in conversation...I could really go on.  The great thing about when personal branding goes too far is that you can usually tell because people are just obviously fake and uncaring.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I believe that success that makes you change who you are to achieve &quot;it&quot; is not success at all.  Like the blatantly false and shallow self-promotion of personal branding gone too far the success is nothing more than a thin sheet of ice you&#039;ll eventually fall through.  I&#039;ve unfollowed and unsubscribed to many a person who whored themselves to a point of ridiculousness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam, I love this post and even more that I can verify that you in person is not at all different than you online.  I feel like there are many people who would not be able to make that same statement.  <img src='http://www.lifeschocolates.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>To answer your questions, dear god yes personal branding can go too far.  In the past month I&#39;ve encountered people who solicited my email under false pretenses on Twitter only to inundate me with sales pitches, written posts with sensational SEO laden titles which detract from the entire point of the post, RT&#39;s of the same post over 20 times, writing juvenile posts attacking other bloggers after reaching out to them under false pretenses, asking questions on Twitter for open @replies and then never engaging in conversation&#8230;I could really go on.  The great thing about when personal branding goes too far is that you can usually tell because people are just obviously fake and uncaring.</p>
<p>I believe that success that makes you change who you are to achieve &#8220;it&#8221; is not success at all.  Like the blatantly false and shallow self-promotion of personal branding gone too far the success is nothing more than a thin sheet of ice you&#39;ll eventually fall through.  I&#39;ve unfollowed and unsubscribed to many a person who whored themselves to a point of ridiculousness.</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David: I think we share a very similar philosophy. I let my content speak for itself. The way some people operate their personal branding &quot;strategy,&quot; it does seem like whoring! It&#039;s ironic because some of the people who work the hardest to promote themselves and work their way up in the online world actually have more of a negative reputation than they realize. But, like I said in the post, one meaningful comment on a post is success for me. I&#039;d rather that then 50 fluffy comments. Thanks for taking part in the discussion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David: I think we share a very similar philosophy. I let my content speak for itself. The way some people operate their personal branding &#8220;strategy,&#8221; it does seem like whoring! It&#39;s ironic because some of the people who work the hardest to promote themselves and work their way up in the online world actually have more of a negative reputation than they realize. But, like I said in the post, one meaningful comment on a post is success for me. I&#39;d rather that then 50 fluffy comments. Thanks for taking part in the discussion!</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sharalyn: You make a couple very important points: We&#039;re not anonymous anywhere--online or offline, and although it&#039;s great to use the Web to promote ourselves and our endeavors, we shouldn&#039;t become a different person online than we are offline. We want our online persona to reflect and compliment our offline persona, we don&#039;t want an alternate personality. Thanks so much for your comments!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sharalyn: You make a couple very important points: We&#39;re not anonymous anywhere&#8211;online or offline, and although it&#39;s great to use the Web to promote ourselves and our endeavors, we shouldn&#39;t become a different person online than we are offline. We want our online persona to reflect and compliment our offline persona, we don&#39;t want an alternate personality. Thanks so much for your comments!</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wayne: Thank you for sharing your insight! You ask, how much is enough? And, I think you answer your own question. As you said, when personal branding is a success at the expense of everything else we value in our lives, we&#039;ve pushed the envelope too far and need to reevaluate. I think the problem is that many people don&#039;t take a moment to stop and make sure they haven&#039;t pushed the envelope too far. They don&#039;t realize that they might need to reevaluate. You&#039;re right that everyone has their own version of personal branding, but we have to maintain our sense of self throughout.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I love this, we should be loving people using money instead of loving money and using people. Amen to that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wayne: Thank you for sharing your insight! You ask, how much is enough? And, I think you answer your own question. As you said, when personal branding is a success at the expense of everything else we value in our lives, we&#39;ve pushed the envelope too far and need to reevaluate. I think the problem is that many people don&#39;t take a moment to stop and make sure they haven&#39;t pushed the envelope too far. They don&#39;t realize that they might need to reevaluate. You&#39;re right that everyone has their own version of personal branding, but we have to maintain our sense of self throughout.</p>
<p>I love this, we should be loving people using money instead of loving money and using people. Amen to that!</p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alexander: Just like people speak in a certain tone of voice, I think we write in tones as well. What I mean by that is you can tell when someone is trying to sell you something through their writing, whether that something is an idea or opinion, or their skills. If I read a blog post in the tone of &quot;I&#039;m the shit, so you should listen to me,&quot; I&#039;m inclined to do just the opposite and stop reading. I hope that helps explain what, I at least, meant by negative personal branding. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s also the plethora of experts, as you and others have mentioned.  The difference between someone like you, who writes about a subject he enjoys and is knowledgeable about, and them, is that you don&#039;t tout yourself as the all-knowing source of Middle Eastern affairs. You feel that you have knowledge to share that will be valuable to others, and that&#039;s a great thing. Thank you for the long comment, verbose is welcome here :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alexander: Just like people speak in a certain tone of voice, I think we write in tones as well. What I mean by that is you can tell when someone is trying to sell you something through their writing, whether that something is an idea or opinion, or their skills. If I read a blog post in the tone of &#8220;I&#39;m the shit, so you should listen to me,&#8221; I&#39;m inclined to do just the opposite and stop reading. I hope that helps explain what, I at least, meant by negative personal branding. </p>
<p>It&#39;s also the plethora of experts, as you and others have mentioned.  The difference between someone like you, who writes about a subject he enjoys and is knowledgeable about, and them, is that you don&#39;t tout yourself as the all-knowing source of Middle Eastern affairs. You feel that you have knowledge to share that will be valuable to others, and that&#39;s a great thing. Thank you for the long comment, verbose is welcome here <img src='http://www.lifeschocolates.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sameve</title>
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		<dc:creator>sameve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Akhila: You make some great points. As far as your first point, I acknowledge that we all have different goals, and personal branding may be why some people blog. But, there are certain ways to do that without coming off as some sort of pompous jerk. I think Ryan Stephens is a great example of someone who shares his knowledge of a particular subject, but doesn&#039;t let self promotion or his ego take over his blog.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The second point, is something I totally understand. It&#039;s hard to share your personal life with the blogosphere, and I get that some people don&#039;t feel comfortable with it. But, I don&#039;t think that people who do share aspects of their lives are branding themselves. So, not doing so isn&#039;t a lack of personal branding. I hope that made sense! &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Again, I have no problem with people who want to promote their personal brand online. The part that bothers me is how it&#039;s done sometimes. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for contributing to the discussion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Akhila: You make some great points. As far as your first point, I acknowledge that we all have different goals, and personal branding may be why some people blog. But, there are certain ways to do that without coming off as some sort of pompous jerk. I think Ryan Stephens is a great example of someone who shares his knowledge of a particular subject, but doesn&#39;t let self promotion or his ego take over his blog.</p>
<p>The second point, is something I totally understand. It&#39;s hard to share your personal life with the blogosphere, and I get that some people don&#39;t feel comfortable with it. But, I don&#39;t think that people who do share aspects of their lives are branding themselves. So, not doing so isn&#39;t a lack of personal branding. I hope that made sense! </p>
<p>Again, I have no problem with people who want to promote their personal brand online. The part that bothers me is how it&#39;s done sometimes. </p>
<p>Thanks for contributing to the discussion!</p>
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