Expanding My Mind

by Samantha on February 22, 2012

A couple of weeks ago, my therapist asked me about my career path. We talked about my interests, dream jobs, and the types of opportunities I would love to pursue if nothing was holding me back…and then we talked about what was holding me back. I told her I wasn’t sure that I was qualified enough to break into the fields I really want to be in, and she asked if I’ve considered going to back school. Right now, going back to school for another degree isn’t an option. As long as hubs is in law school, I need to be employed. I’m not even sure if I would want to be a full-time student again. But, as my doctor pointed out, there are other options. This is why she gets paid the big bucks.

So, I’ve started looking into taking a class, just one, at a school in Manhattan or online. I don’t care about credit at this point, I just want knowledge. I want to expand my mind and make myself a more valuable future employee and member of society. Of course, there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to afford to take a class right now, but I’m going to do whatever I can to make it happen. This is one of those times where I put myself first. I’ll let you know how it goes.

Since I’ve never done this before, I have a gazillion questions and would greatly appreciate any feedback! Have you ever taken a continuing ed class? How did you decide which one to take and where? Did you do it in person or online? How did you manage your time with work and school?

Related Posts with Thumbnails
Be Sociable, Share!
  • Mehnaz

    Yay more knowledge!
    I actually went for a Masters degree a few years ago. It was a full-time, 1 year program and i worked about 3-4 days a week concurrently. I don’t recommend this route because it’s ridiculously intense (I don’t actually have any recollection of how I managed – it just got done).  I am currently self-teaching french. I think the key is to carve out uninterrupted time to do the work, whether it’s getting up a bit earlier or perhaps setting aside weekend time to do it. 
    Think of something that is simultaneously fun and can be integrated. For me, French is great because 1. We’re a bilingual country 2. Working in communications, it’s a leg-up and 3. I absolutely love languages.

    Best of luck, Sam! I know it’ll be a totally worthy endeavour!

  • http://parisianfeline.wordpress.com/ Tatiana

    Yay! The expansion of one’s consciousness is always a vital hobby. I would ask, since it wasnt explicit in your post – what do you want to expand your mind on (or about)?

    Do you want to get better at a specific skill like playing an instrument, learning a new sport (badminton and volleyball are awesome!)? Do you want to grow spiritually (I know some good books!) or learn more about a specific faith that fascinates you (ie: maybe you can attend a Mosque for a few weeks and see how you like it! Not to convert – unless you want to – but the expansion of one’s consciousness is essentially tending to your Spirit. And your Spirit loves fun and safe adventures!).

    Learning doesn’t have to take place in a classroom – while this is redundant, it’s also an expensive hobby to take classes that suck up your free time (such as paying for books, the gas to get there, and the time you spend doing homework assignments, school supplies, etc). Which is why I suggest a more direct approach. Just think of a random thing you think is cool, you don’t even have to know anything about it. See if you can find someone to teach you, or attend a cheap/free class (but not school – think the YMCA, gym, etc).

    Admittedly, this doesn’t answer any of your questions at all o.o;; I do think taking an intro class could be helpful, like in philosophy, if you’re fascinated but don’t know where to start, or with whom, what century and on what topic. So a class can point you in the right direction; same with more technical skills like web design or programming. Having a formal teacher can make learning much easier.

    I haven’t taken a continuing ed class before, mostly due to the cost and the time commitment.

  • http://rubyku.com/ Ruby Ku

    Hey Sam! Long time no chat! I randomly saw your tweet about this blog post and you know what – that’s the very problem I’m currently working on. I founded a company called HourSchool last year (based on our research with the homeless from Austin Center for Design… but more on that later), and it’s about peer-led, affordable, bite-sized, in-person classes, taught by practitioners, that people can take to learn new skills for their current job or new job opportunities. We’ve had lots of successes with our design, development, cooking, and writing type classes. What topics/classes are you specifically looking for? Would you be available for a longer chat? Would love to pick your brain more on this as well. On another note, would be nice to catch up on life :) Hope you’re well!

  • http://www.suburbansweetheart.com/ Suburban Sweetheart

    I’d love to know what you learn & where you go from here. I’ve been thinking of taking a class or two, too!

  • http://www.lifeschocolates.com sameve

    Wow, that’s either impressive or crazy ;) Finding something I can integrate is fantastic advice, and that’s what I’m trying to do. Sure, part of me would like to take a fashion styling course, but since I can’t go for a full certificate right now, it wouldn’t do me much good. I’ll let you know what I decide. Thanks for the comment!

  • http://www.lifeschocolates.com sameve

    Such an interesting perspective, Tatiana, thank  you! I’m very interested in fashion, and I would love to have some educational experience under my belt. I’ve found that classes are expensive, but I’m trying to find something that I can integrate with my pre-existing skills and education. Then, it will hopefully be worth the time and money.

  • http://www.lifeschocolates.com sameve

    Hi Ruby! That sounds so interesting, and I would definitely love to chat. I’m reachable my email, and I’m generally on gchat during the day (samantha.tananbaum). Thanks for commenting! 

  • http://www.lifeschocolates.com sameve

    Thanks, Kate! We shall see. Welcome back to the States :)

Previous post:

Next post: